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How Should Parents Help Children to be Independent Nowadays, there is a growing concern over such a phenomenon, that is, some parents take care of almost everything concerned with their children, including study, work and marriage. Some parents believe that this is love, however, it is only to destroy children’s independence thoroughly. For the future of the next generation, more efforts should be made by parents to help their children to be independent. The fundamental one is to cultivate the awareness, namely, the importance and necessity of being independent, which is supposed to begin from childhood. Children should be taught that no one can be stronger and more helpful than themselves in this world. The quality of independence is so indispensable for us that parents had better act as a tutor, not a dictator. And only with parents' trust, can the next generation accumulate confidence step by step.
如今，人们越来越关注这样一种现象，那就是一些父母几乎包揽了他们孩子的一切，包括学习，工作和婚姻。有些父母认为这就是爱，然而，它只会彻底摧毁孩子的独立性。为了下一代的未来，父母应该做更多的努力来帮助他们的孩子独立。最基本的一个是培养意识，即，独立的重要性和必要性，这应该从童年开始。孩子们应该被教导，在这个世界上没有人能比他们自己更强大，更有帮助。独立的品质对我们来说是如此不可或缺，所以父母最好扮演一个导师，而不是独裁者。只有有了父母的信任，下一代才能逐步积累信心。
When we talk about being independent, we often think about leaving our parents and living alone. The mental independence is always ignored by people, mental independence means the person can measure the things and make the right decision. As for the children, even they move out and stay far away from their parents, but sometimes they just can't control themselves, they will get the bad behavior, like smoking and drinking, their life is losing control. The young people need to cultivate their independent spirit, they should think by themselves, learn to take care of the other people, thus they can be the real independent. When a person grows up, they can be strong enough to support their lives and at the same time, they can be mature enough to make their own decision. They can tell what is wrong and what is right.
当我们谈到成为独立，总是想要离开父母，独自居住。精神上的独立总是被人们忽略，精神上的独立意味着一个人能衡量事情，做出正确的决定。对于孩子来说，虽然他们搬出去，远离父母，但是有时候他们无法自控，养成不好的习惯。比如抽烟和喝酒，他们的生活会失控。年轻人需要养成独立精神，他们应该自己思考，学着去照顾别人，这样才能真正的独立。当一个人成长了，他们才能够足够的强大去养活自己，同时，也能够足够成熟去做决定。他们能区分什么是好，什么是坏。
As we all know, the law followed in nature is _survival of the fittest.__. Only those who have a good grasp of the law of survival can adapt to the environment more quickly.
In the animal kingdom, animals need self-reliance and self-improvement, as are humans. _Drop your own sweat, eat your own meal, and do your own thing._._ This is Mr. Tao Xingzhi's words.
We need to help each other and depend on each other in our social life. Self-reliance is not a refusal to help, rely on, not rely on. If you want to live independently, you must be responsible for your own affairs. In the face of all kinds of things in life, we can only become true self - support only by making clear our own responsibilities and taking the responsibility of ourselves. We should also cultivate our own ability to support ourselves. The most basic thing is to be based on our own current life, the problems in our studies, and start with small things. In order to cultivate independent ability, we should also boldly join in social practice and exercise more and more continuously in social life so as to gradually improve our abilities. So we should cultivate our independent ability. We want to bid farewell to dependence, self-reliance.
However, in today's society, some people are people who rely heavily on ideas. They are called _neet_ and are idle all day. These people who have eaten nothing can do great things, and small things are not willing to do them. These people can't live on their own and need help from their parents. However, parents can not take care of their lives for a lifetime, and this dependence on their own development is very harmful. Because it not only makes people lack the sense of responsibility in life, but also causes personality defects. Just want nothing for nothing, for enjoyment, can not adapt to social life, and even endanger society and others, embarked on the road of crime and crime.
If we can not from now on, with the help of parents, consciously reserve independent knowledge, exercise self-reliance ability, cultivate independent spirit, it is difficult to self-reliance in the future society. So learning to be independent is very important to us. If you don't want to be a burden to others and be eliminated by society, you must learn to be independent from your childhood.
Other people's charity is limited, and their skills are infinite. We all have to learn to stand on our own feet and learn to stand on our own feet. It will be a great help to our future.
众所周知，自然界遵循的法则是“适者生存”。只有掌握了生存规律的人才能更快地适应环境。
在动物王国，动物需要自力更生和自我完善，人类也是如此。“滴你自己的汗，吃你自己的饭，做你自己的事。”这是陶行知先生的话。
在我们的社会生活中，我们需要互相帮助，相互依赖。自力更生不是拒绝帮助，依赖，不依赖。如果你想独立生活，你必须对自己的事情负责。面对生活中各种各样的事情，我们只有明确自己的责任，承担起自己的责任，才能成为真正的自立。我们也应该培养自己养活自己的能力。最基本的就是要立足于我们自己现在的生活，学习上的问题，从小事做起。为了培养独立能力，我们还应该大胆地参加社会实践，在社会生活中不断地进行更多的锻炼，从而逐步提高自己的能力。所以我们应该培养自己的独立能力。我们要告别依赖，告别自立。
然而，在当今社会，有些人是严重依赖思想的人。他们被称为“啃老族”，整天无所事事。这些什么都没吃的人能做大事，小事都不愿意做。这些人不能自己生活，需要父母的帮助。然而，父母不能照顾他们一辈子的生活，这种依赖自己的发展是非常有害的。因为它不仅使人在生活中缺乏责任感，而且还会导致人格缺陷。贪图不劳而获，贪图享乐，不能适应社会生活，甚至危害社会和他人，走上犯罪和犯罪的道路。
如果我们不能从现在开始，在父母的帮助下，有意识地储备自主知识，锻炼自主能力，培养自主精神，就很难在未来的社会中自立。所以学会独立对我们很重要。不想成为别人的负担，不想被社会淘汰，就必须从小学会独立。
别人的慈善是有限的，他们的技能是无限的。我们都要学会自立，学会自立。这将对我们的未来有很大的帮助。
Since ancient times, human development and inheritance can not be separated from independence. Independence is an innate demand of human beings, but how can we get real independence?
See the _independence_ will think of _free_, the two words seem closely related, but the painstaking research will show that although the independence and freedom are the basic human needs, but freedom is a kind of external applied environmental conditions, and is independent of human beings to produce a kind of self the desire, so it is not difficult to see that, to be truly independent, must improve their spiritual level, instead of complaining about the lack of external environment provided by the.
Independence is the highest demand in the process of human growth, and only true and full understanding of ourselves and society can achieve true independence. _Books are the ladder of human progress._ reading is no doubt a good way to hone our minds and enlighten our minds. The Ming Dynasty Song Lian's childhood of poverty, learning books, reading something through hardships, finally, to take on the world alone. The knowledge contained in the book can make your soul sublime. The success stories of the people in the book can enrich your experience and make you more mature, so that you can face the problem better and live independently.
The key points of Wang Shouren's famous Ming Dynasty created by the mind is the unity of knowledge, learning enough knowledge, to be truly independent, practice is essential. The young Lu Xun to give up in the domestic medical opportunity is not optimistic about her choice at the time of the study abroad, go to Japan to live independently, eventually realized that the disease is not in the body, but in thought, if he does not go to practice, try to separate, how can abandon medicine from the text, to achieve greater ambition? Try to feel independent, practice independent, can bring you rich experience, and the difficulties encountered in independence, will be more able to hone your wings, so that you can reach a higher spiritual level.
Trees out of the forest are more vulnerable to thunderstorms, and independent practice is also faced with great risks, which requires more experience and knowledge. Some teenagers now desire for independence, so that the wrong understanding of the independent meaning, some of them go to Internet cafes to feel independent of joy, some people even ran away from home, but as everyone knows, the road around the hidden fierce machine, not enough experience and knowledge, they can only fork in the road of life to fall edge.
Humans are growing in the pursuit of independent process, in independent practice, inevitably exposed to wind and rain, but as long as there is a strong will and rich experience of the people, they will be able to once again, the failure to stand up again, look to the sky; only in this way people can enjoy the charm of independence!
自古以来，人类的发展与传承就离不开独立。独立是人类与生俱来的需求，但我们如何才能获得真正的独立?
看到“自由”的“独立”会认为,这两个词似乎密切相关,但是艰苦的研究表明,尽管独立和自由是人们的基本需求,但自由是一种外部应用环境条件,并独立于人类产生一种自我的欲望,所以不难看出，要想真正的独立，必须提高自己的精神水平，而不是抱怨缺乏所提供的外部环境。
独立是人类成长过程中的最高要求，只有真正充分地认识自己和社会，才能实现真正的独立。“书籍是人类进步的阶梯”，读书无疑是磨砺心灵、启迪心灵的好方法。明朝宋濂的童年贫寒，学习书籍，读点东西历经磨难，最后，独自担当天下。书中所载的知识能使你的灵魂升华。书中人们的成功故事可以丰富你的经验，让你更成熟，让你更好地面对问题，独立生活。
明代著名的王守仁所创造的思想要点是知识的统一，学习足够的知识，才能真正的独立，实践是必不可少的。年轻的鲁迅放弃在国内医疗机会对她的选择不是乐观的时候出国留学,去日本独立生活,最终意识到这种疾病不是在体内,但在想,如果他不去练习,试着独立,怎么能放弃医学从文本中,为了实现更大的抱负?试着去感受独立，实践独立，能给你带来丰富的经验，而在独立中遇到的困难，会更能磨练你的羽翼，使你能达到更高的精神境界。
人类是在追求独立成长的过程中，在独立实践中，难免要经受风雨，但只要有一个意志坚强、经验丰富的'人，他们就能再一次，把失败再一次站起来，仰望天空;只有这样，人们才能享受独立的魅力!
由于现在大多数家长对自己孩子的成绩十分重视，以至于对孩子的动手能力产生了忽视。为了不耽误孩子的学习时间，甚至不让孩子做自己只要稍微动动手就能解决的事。因此，“高分低能儿”的现象就变得十分普遍了。
一个人学会**是很重要的。如果他没有一定的生活常识和技能，就不可能**。长大后难以在社会上立足，事事都要依赖父母。很多家长都抱着这样一种心态：“我这样疼爱照顾我的孩子，他将来必会孝敬我。”其实不然，这样想，只会出现更多的“啃老族”。
那么学会**能给一个人带来什么呢？
**让人坚强。这句话一点也不假。在我国，那些生活在“人不堪其忧”的山区里的孩子因为条件**、家庭变故等因素，早早地学会了洗衣做饭等生活技能，让他们即使在如此艰苦的条件下也能拥有积极向上的精神。《变形计》中，有一对兄妹住在湘西的山区里。这里道路不通，因此经济根本无法发展起来。哥哥才读小学四年级，就已经会干各种家务活，还会上山劈柴。他每天早晨天未亮就起来做早餐，不光要照顾自己，还要照顾自己的妹妹。做完这些，就要走一两公里的路，带着妹妹一起去上学。每天晚上还要写作业，还要洗衣做饭。仅仅一个十岁的小男孩，就在父母离异，家中没有亲人的环境生活。生活如此艰辛，可他依旧没有放弃。正是因为**自主，让他早早地成为了一个坚强的男子汉。
**可以帮助他在社会上立足。试想一下，一个**学毕业了，什么都得靠自己。由于生活技能他根本没掌握，衣服脏了，不会洗；肚子饿了，不会做饭；当很多选择摆在面前时，不会选择即使他有再高的学位，又有何用呢？空有满腹学识，却只能露宿街头，当个乞丐罢了。
“志不强者智不达”。学会**，其实比学习更重要。
我们每天都在成长，成长的过程中我们得学会**。
**是我们成长的第一课，小时候的我们是随着爸爸妈妈一起睡的.，但当我们渐渐长大了后，首先我们要学会的就是一个人睡觉了。
犹记我第一次一个人睡觉的那晚，一开始，我满怀信心的朝着爸爸妈妈道我一个人睡觉不会怕的。可结果等到夜晚来临，我一个人躺在床上的时候，我将屋子里的灯光全都开着，一双眼睛胡乱的四处瞟着。那一晚直到后半夜的时候，我才浅浅入眠。
等到第二天阳光从窗户外照射进屋子里来的时候，我悠悠转醒，那一刻我的兴奋怎么都忘不了，因为我依然做到了**第一步。我起床后，无比开心的去想爸爸妈妈说：“我学会**了。”
学会**，首先是要有勇气踏出第一步。其实那时候**着爸爸妈妈说自己能够一个人睡觉的时候，我的心里是很害怕的，但是我还是走出了**的第一步。
我们要懂得**就是我们在生活中不要处处依赖别人，遇到困难的时候也要知道该如何面对，不要一遇到一些小事就求助他人，这样的我们也就很难摆脱对他人的依赖，这就更不用说学会**了。
我们要学会**，其实我们要做的事情有很多，但是这些事情都离不开一点，那就是你得一个人完成。不需要别人的陪伴，不需要别人的帮助，你一个人就能完美的做好。当我们在生活中遇到这些事情的时候，我们能够**完成的时候，这就说明我们已经学会**了。
每一个走向成长，最终变得成熟的人都是要学会**的。因为每个人的人生之路，没有谁能够一直陪伴着你走完，学会**，勇敢的面对自己的人生。
I got an idea about why I am not good at express myself. The answer is I bee we are young, we depend on our parents to take care of everything. As time goes by, we can live by ourselves. we do not seek advice from them. They are no longer the God they used to we bee remote to them do not unsterdand the love our parents given to us untill we bee parents. At the early stage of dependence, we are lonely planets. We do not talk to them as we did in the past. However, when we grow older, say in our 30s, 40s, the true meaning of life e to us. And this kind of independence is a mature one.
我知道了为什么我不擅长表达自己。答案是我是独立的。当我们年轻的时候，我们依靠我们的父母照顾一切。随着时间的流逝，我们可以自己生活。我们不向他们寻求建议。他们不再是过去的上帝了。所以我们和他们渐行渐远。直到成为父母，我们才懂得父母给予我们的爱。在依赖的初期，我们都是孤独的星球。我们不再像过去那样与他们交谈。然而，当我们变老的时候，比如在三四十岁的时候，生命的真正意义就出现了。这种独立是一种成熟的独立。
我们要学会**，不要什么事都依赖父母。如果我们凡事都依赖父母，长大后将不会**。鲁滨孙就是独自一个人在岛上生活了二十几年。
《鲁滨孙漂流记》一书主要讲了这样一个故事：从前，有个英国人叫做鲁滨孙，他喜欢冒险，希望走遍全世界。有一次，鲁滨孙航海时遇到大风，同伴们都死了，只有他活着。但是他被大浪冲到了一个荒岛上。他又该怎样活下去呢？第二天，等到潮水退了，他看见了翻了的船有一半浮在海面上。他做了木筏，然后划到船边。鲁滨孙在船上找了很多东西，还带回一条狗，两只猫。之后他又搭了一个帐篷当做自己的住所。随后他就想法生存。然后他自己种植粮食解决吃饭问题。****之后，他抵御野人，救助了“星期五”。之后，“星期五”成了他的好帮手。随后，他救助了停在附近岛上的船长，重返了英国。
从这个故事来说：**是最最重要的，也是最最基础的，如果没有学会**，那么长大后就很麻烦。
那我和鲁滨孙比，差距实在太大了。我什么事搜要依赖父母，连睡觉也不敢一个人睡。下次我一定改掉坏习惯，学会**。让我们做一个**自主的好学生！
A door in a school, I witness such a thing: a mother will be a food bag and a paper bag and handed it to her daughter, said: _this is your favorite things, and just a good brush shoes._ The daughter also handed a parcel to her mother and said, _theres a dirty dress in it. Its missing. Dont forget to nail it when you wash it._._
In the minds of children, parents are like walls that never fall. But no one will ever be a child, and no one will ever stand under the roof of the family. Stepping into life, leaving your parents harbor and leaving the help of relatives and friends, is the road to lifes growth. We must learn to be independent.
You need independence in your life. We have no *, no need to go to work to feed themselves, but our most basic independent skills that we can take care of themselves, manage their own pocket money, do their own thing, cooking etc.. As *s, we must learn to rely on ourselves and support ourselves. The society has such a sentence: _really know how to educate their children parents give their children is not independent but a vast wealth, spiritual wealth._ Mr. Stanley, President of one of the five hundred large companies in the United States is the worlds great wealth, he let the children know how to manage, how to make money, how to deal with money, at the same time to tell the children, their hard-earned money is the most precious, to learn their own independence.
Learning needs independence. Nowadays, many students do not consider learning as their own thing. They often want their parents to supervise and blame to learn. Some people complain that their parents are not college students. They feel that they are lagging behind others, but in fact, they still have to rely on themselves. Indeed, the _kid_ It is often seen. at all times and in all countries, Mrs. Curies daughter, who is a scientist won the Nobel prize; three is the _eight of Tang and song dynasties_...... They have been influenced by their parents and made them interested in a subject, which is one of the reasons for their success. Chinese mathematician Zhang Guanghous father was an illiterate miner, his family was poor, but Zhang Guanghou unremitting self-improvement in difficult, rely on our own efforts, painstaking research, has made outstanding achievements in mathematics study. Obviously, their success is not dependent on their parents, but on their own efforts. As the saying goes, _the master takes the door and practices the individual._._ Parents and teachers show us the direction and point out the methods of study, and they cant go with us for a lifetime. To further study and study, we must depend on ourselves.
Work needs independence. As the saying goes, _depend on your parents at home, and go out to depend on your friends._._ But this sentence is no longer applicable in the present society. In todays society need competition, need something, need DIY (DIY) personnel, the _back door_ has no what position. Independent in the work, we must know how to find their own work, rely on their own strength to be promoted step by step, good to show their talent in front of the leadership, not all lament underappreciated, task independent, to overcome difficulties, the courage to try. As Hugo said, _I would rather open my future by my own strength than by the powerful._._ Believe that I am the master of my own self!_ Yang Lan read the fourth to ap* for CCTV host, facing the forest service, she decided to the judges said: _no matter you dont choose me, but I have to express yourself today._ She did so, she beat out many strong results, it. The Song Dynasty famous writer Su Xun had 22 articles carefully written their own show Hanlin Ou Yangxiu, got Ou Yangxiu recognition, and recommend it to the court.
Remember Latin America has a saying: _self-reliance is better than Gods hand._._ A persons growth, can not be separated from the upbringing of parents, social upbringing, the teachers teaching. However, these are external factors, and learning to be independent is the key. A person in the favorable conditions, independent ability, strict demands on themselves, in order to move towards the other side of the success!
——讲述学会**的作文
我盯着一个写满字的车站牌，皱着眉头，仔细寻找着什么。哎！你瞧我这记性，有始以来第一次一个坐公交车，竟然就忘了问父母坐几号车！我突然有了种恨铁不成钢的感觉，我这个死脑袋怎么就不长记性！
终于，在那站了10分钟的我笑了，锁了10分钟的眉头也终于展开了。我找到了！在密密麻麻的一堆字中，我找到了那最可爱的几个字——公交六公司，这是在37号车的路线内的，正所谓皇天不负有心人，我今儿才算尝到了。说曹操曹操到，刚找到37号车，它就来了。走上车，掏了钱，我就安稳的“站”到了车上，因为车上的人虽然不多，可也没有座位，哎！如今这社会，我才不指望谁给我让位子呢！公交车缓缓地走着，我看着车窗外倒退的建筑物，心中忽然觉得自己当了一次大人，离开了父母的大手。
没有了父母拘束的笼子，我正如出笼的小鸟，在空中**自在地飞着。不知不觉中车到了一站，一个急刹车，搞得我东倒西歪，就像被大风吹着的不树苗。无意中，我感到头撞**一个软软的、热乎乎的东西，头一仰，一张怒目圆睁的脸扭了过来。“对……对不起”我的脸像熟了的柿子——涨红了脸。还好那位阿姨看起来今天心情不错，没有跟我计较只是带着她那张脸转了过去，尴尬的场面消失了。
忐忑不安的我，突然想到了父母的手，每次刹车时总会扶住我的手。不！我不能依恋父母的手，我要学会**。
我给自己下定了目标——学会**！今天，我只迈出了我走向“**”的一小步，我下定决定，哪怕是一小步一小步的走，我也要走向它。因为人生的道路不可能处处*坦，如果你依恋父母给予的依靠，那么等一天你失去了父母时，你也就会变得不堪一击，你不敢去尝试，自己什么都不会，遇到挫折会心灰意冷，不会去面对。让我们一起下定决心，要“学会**”，记住我们是等待起飞的雄鹰，“**”就是我们的两翼，让我们一起冲刺天空！
——学会**的作文5篇
如今的孩子，不是小**就是小公主，不是奶油小生就是奶油公主。他们不会自立，没有自信，也不坚强，只知道撒娇和哭泣，不晓得用自己的力量坚持下去。
为什么他们没有勇气？为什么总是放弃？是他们做不到吗？不！他们完全做得到！那是什么让他们这样呢？是大人对他们的娇惯与他们对大人们的依赖！
同学们，让我们抛弃大人们的关怀，离开大人们的怀抱，做一个**、坚强的孩子。让我们离开大人们的娇惯与照顾，自己照顾自己、自己生活。能行吗？吗怕就一段时间，你就会学会**。想知道**于不**有什么区别吗？我身边就有一对对比的例子：同样都是同学，一个爸妈出差时，不需要任何人照顾，自己做饭，自己检查作业……自己照顾自己的一切，成绩也一点不下滑。另一个反而要老人照顾自己的一切，成绩也逐渐下滑。
以后，我们是要走向社会的，既然走向社会了，就一定要学会**与坚强。总不能在成年是要劳累你们的父母吧！
不管现在的生活怎么样，我们都要学会**与坚强，不要对任何人产生依赖性与依靠性！既然子安仔的生活变好了，就要争取做*90后孩子们的领头者。
让我们一起学会**与坚强吧。据我所知，如今邮箱孩子连饭都不会做。现在许多家长都认为，孩子的学习最重要，饭会不会做，家务活会不会做不重要。这其实是大错特错！
孩子们必须学会坚强！现在无论女孩子还是男孩子都还害怕一个小小的虫子。
必须学会**，现在大多数孩子遇到困难与挫折，总是不知道**完成。
让我们一起宣誓：学会**与坚强！
抛弃大人：做一个**、坚强的孩子！
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