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We Should Balance Our Love
Nowadays it is common to see that many parents focus their attention on their children, but leave their own parents without proper care. The most typical example is the phenomenon of empty nest seniors. This problem has aroused the public concern and has become the hot topic of many discussions.
Paying little attention to older parents can have serious consequences. First, the elderly often feel lonely and depressed if there is no child with whom they can talk, and this can have a bad effect on their mental health. Second, the aged parents with no children by their sides can have a lot of trouble in their daily life due to disease or old age.
In my opinion, we should take the following measures. Children should be encouraged to live with or near their old parents, which is very helpful for them to know their parents, concern and attend their daily life. And it is also necessary for them to create chances to communicate with their aged parents. Besides, our govemmeiit should strive to establish the service system for the elderly and expand its social insurance coverage among them.
Care for the young is the traditional Chinese virtues embodied in these words I only seat on the bus
In fact, when the good people who bear who did not want to watch an old man lying on the street no one to manage?
//^v^Peng Yu, Xu Yunhe, after all, very very very very few,//^v^ but you help him up in an old man, he depends on your risk is 50%
If I was a witness to help him no witnesses I hit ,
If you arrived at this period in 120 elderly people out of what is really no way that I can, and then rely on their good work efficiency is low
I think I've been doing is doing everything humanly possible.
Recently, with the increasing busy life of our contemporaries, the loneness of the old ones has been existent as a widespread socail phenomena,which is really worth a plenty of social attention.
There are a couple of principal factors for this issue .Most importantly ,It is because the young are so engaged with their work and study that it is difficult for them to find time visiting their old generations .Furthermore, the unemployment of old people is another influential ground for their loneness since they may have too much free time and don't know what to do .
Since the old generations have made great contribution to the society ,So,they should be respected ,accepted and cared .As for me ,they are at leats two ways to resolve this problem. First ,the old ones can raise pets like dogs or cats to have a accompany ,also, they can have a walk in the park,last, the young should care them and find time together with them as possible .
Nowadays, in every corner stands a nuclear family, which embraces a father, a mother, one or two children. However, a large majority of children leave their parents for their jobs，and only parents stay at home isolatedly. And young men are so entwined by the work that gerontic parents are bemused with the feast on the table, looking forward to the coming of their chilren. In modern society, which is suffused with intensive competion, young men have to work hard so as not to lag behind others. In this way, they almost forget their parents’ life. In usual days, they would not like to take their time to visit their parents with busyness. On some festival days, they probably spare a little time to drop in on their parents or even just send some presents for there may be a party where they have to appear. But are the occasional visits and unemotional presents enough to solace parents’ solitude?Can these pay off many years’ love of parents ?
No matter how busy young men are, they should pay more attention to parents’ feeling and life. Actuarlly, parents understand their children so much and don’t have so many requirments for them. They just want to have a chat with their children to share the sorrow and happiness in the life, or staying with their children to express silent intimate relationship.
Therefor, as childen of parents, we should suffice their few wishes. Once we are free from work, refuse some social activities, spare time to visit them, talk with them and accompany them. Besides, we can arouse parents to do some activities, such as playing chess, drawing pictures and so on to enjoy their old years.
Consequantly, they will feel less lonliness without our absence. If we visit parents frequatly, care more about them, I believe the world will be full of harmonious atmosphere with love.
We Should Balance Our Love
1. 现在有很多人关心下一代超过关心上一代
2. 这一现象带来什么问题
3. 你认为应该怎么做
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We Should Balance Our Love
Nowadays it is common to see that manyparents focus their attention on their children, butleave their own parents without proper care. Themost typical example is the phenomenon of emptynest seniors. This problem has aroused the publicconcern and has become the hot topic of many discussions.
Paying little attention to older parents can have serious consequences. First, the elderlyoften feel lonely and depressed if there is no child with whom they can talk, and this can have abad effect on their mental health. Second, the aged parents with no children by their sides canhave a lot of trouble in their daily life due to disease or old age.
In my opinion, we should take the following measures. Children should be encouraged tolive with or near their old parents, which is very helpful for them to know their parents, concernand attend their daily life. And it is also necessary for them to create chances to communicatewith their aged parents. Besides, our govemmeiit should strive to establish the service systemfor the elderly and expand its social insurance coverage among them.
As can be seen from the society, the department in a store which sells nutritive products for children is surrounded by crowds of parents, making the salespeople extremely busy. In contrast, the neighboring department that sells similar products for the elderly seems rather deserted by customers. Its saleswoman feels so bored that she can not resist falling asleep.
This mirrors a common social phenomenon from a unique angle--people tend to care more for the next generation than the previous one. On the one hand, young couples dote on children, most of whom are the “only children”. Parents endeavor to prepare their kids for a bright future by raising them healthily. On the other hand, young couples fail to spend time with their old parents, and some of them are even too mean to provide the old with at least a decent living environment.
I think such a trend is quite abnormal and distressing. Filial duty used to be the most highly prized virtue among the Chinese for over two thousand years. Busy as people are, the duty should not be easily shirked. Supplying our old parents with material and emotional supports is not only a repayment to them, but can also set a good example to educate the youth.
Tianshan Wang's (Wu Zhi-Jie) recently, from the Xinjiang Autonomous Regional Committee of the ageing sources said that since 20xx, around Xinjiang, state and city ha一ve signed the ^v^old age maintenance contract^v^, as at present, the region has not been together for the elderly The maintenance problem in the case of complaints.
Old Age maintenance contract^v^ is a family unit, to lease the form of parents of the child support agreement, the contents of the main requirements of their children in accordance with the law both parents must carry out maintenance obligations to the contract forms for their children's maintenance practices and ways to , the majority of Xinjiang, state and municipal agencies in the area of ageing in the implementation of the ^v^old age maintenance contract^v^, the contract also has in-depth agricultural and pastoral areas in Xinjiang majority of the family.
Taking care of the old people is the traditional merit in China, because Chinese people pay special attention to the family union. As more and more young people choose to work in the big cities, they are far away from home and have less time to visit their parents. So they give them the money to show care of the old. But for the old people, they don't care much about the money, what they want is to see their children as often as possible. No matter how busy we are, we should spare some time to stay with our relatives. When they are gone, we will surely regret for not companying them with enough time. So don't let work stuffs take up your private time, just go home often and talk to your parents, which is worthy of all.
As the saying goes, filial piety is the most important in all virtues. To respect the elderly is the Chinese traditional virtue. To respect the elderly is also the progress of human science development. If human have proper thoughts, the society can develop healthily. To care the elders is not only for a child and a family, but also for a society and a country. So this problem has become a hot issue.
As children, they should take care of the elderly in material and spirit. For example, they ought to go back home often to see their parents and accompany them. As the government, they should perfect the legal, because the system is far from perfect. What’s more, the government should provide assistance for the elderly.
Recently, with the increasing busy life of our contemporaries, the loneness of the old ones has been existent as a widespread socail phenomena,which is really worth a plenty of social attention.
There are a couple of principal factors for this issue .Most importantly ,It is because the young are so engaged with their work and study that it is difficult for them to find time visiting their old generations .Furthermore, the unemployment of old people is another influential ground for their loneness since they may ha一ve too much free time and don't know what to do .
Since the old generations ha一ve made great contribution to the society ,So,they should be respected ,accepted and cared .As for me ,they are at leats two ways to resolve this problem. First ,the old ones can raise pets like dogs or cats to ha一ve a accompany ,also, they can ha一ve a walk in the park,last, the young should care them and find time together with them as possible .
in the picture, an old lady is sitting in front of a mirror. she is saying to herself in the mirror: ^v^the children are not in my opany. i feel rather lonely.^v^ the picture reveals one of the serious problems of our modern society.
with better living conditions and better medical care, people can live much longer than before. but how to take care of them has bee a big problem, which we must cope with seriously.
it is reported that there are more than 160 million people aged over 60 in our country. the percentage of old people is still increasing and many families are confronted with problems ing along with old people. the fast tempo of modern life has left people little time and energy to look after their old parents. on the other hand, some people take their old parents as their burden and treat them badly. as a result, many old people feel neglected and live in great loneliness and helplessness, especially when they are suffering from poor health.
something should be urgently done to help these lonely old people. first of all, those who have old parents should take the responsibility to take good care of them. the government should set up more nursing houses for old people, especially for those who have no children and who are physically and mentally disabled. more importantly, there should be more organizations providing financial, medical and legal assistance for old people. in a word, special efforts should be made to help old people to spend their later years of their lives fortably and merrily.
Empty nest syndrome is a general feeling of loneliness that parents or guardians may feel when one or more of their children leave home; it is more common in women. The marriage of a child can lead to similar feelings, with the role and influence of the parents often becoming less important compared to the new spouse.
A strong maternal or paternal bond between the parent and child can make the condition worse. The role of the parent while the child is still living with them is more hands-on and immediate than is possible when they have moved out, particularly if the distance means that visits are difficult.
Empty nest syndrome has become more prevalent in modern times, as the extended family is becoming less common than in past generations, and the elderly are left living by themselves.
In the picture, an old man is sitting in the wheelchair, and a dog is serving him with milk and food. Ironically, it is the dog that takes the responsibility to attend the old man. We cannot help wondering where the old man’s grown up children are. It is they not the dog who should take good care of their old father.
The implied meaning of the picture is really provoking. It is quite true that in our society there are some grown-up children who treat their old parents badly. When their old parents are too old to take care of themselves, they often view them as a “burden” of their family life. They refuse either to support their aging parents financially or to look after them. No doubt, this immoral behavior of these grown-up children’s should be subject to social condemnation.
To respect the old has long been a traditional virtue of the Chinese people. We should always bear in mind that we are much indebted to our parents in that they not only gave us life but have done much to bringing us up. It is against conscience to escape from the responsibility to take care of our parents. Rather, we should pay back for the love and care of our parents by making their later years happy and enjoyable.
In the world has more than 60 hundred million populations. In the middle of this has us to know that has us not to know. Then human and between the human needs to be assorted maintains? Shows loving concern mutually. I gave everybody saying that first two sections occurred, in my side and occurred on my body's story:
A father's mother goes to the store, walks a young woman shoves open after her when the heavy front door she has gone in only then lets loose the hand. Father's mother when expresses gratitude to her, that woman to the father's mother said: “my mother is also similar with yours age, I only am hoped she experiences this kind of matter the time, also some people open the door for her.”Remembered that one year I have fallen ill, mother accompanies on me the hospital, the human are many, I have a fever, mother has been impatient, said loudly how you are do, does not see a doctor?
A nurse walks saw mother anxious appearance, saw my pain the expression, smiled was saying, everybody looked could let this child look first, the crowded people gave us to let a road all of a sudden. Cared mutually the loving care is important. We should help any to need us soulful the person. Between the human and the human only then has filled thick showing loving concern, only will then have more people to be willing to share hardships with you; Only will then have more people to be willing to be you the friend; You will only then enjoy many to from other people's love.
The love, is the society warmest character, in you are shown loving concern by others and shows loving concern others' time, feels the life is the warm atmosphere.
Supporting the old has long been both a duty and a virtue for young people in China. However, some dissatisfactory facts have been observed in recent years. In a family with as many as five grown-up children, the aged mother was kicked around like a football among them, each of whom tried to escape as much responsibility as possible. In another family where therere two old couples, each having only one child, the young couple complained a lot about having to feed seven mouths with their two salaries only. It is obvious that the traditional family-based supporting system no longer fits modern peoples greatly diversified ideology and living style.
Theres one solution that has been both advocated and practised by sociologists, namely the society-based supporting system. In this system, every working person must pay a small amount of his income to the government, and when he retires, more money will be paid back to him each month in term of pension. Meanwhile, children are exempted from the obligation to provide for the aged. Such method can ensure every old man with reliable economic income, whether he is childless or not and regardless of his childrens morality.
Are things totally settled? Not so easily. Money isnt almighty and cannot assure happiness. Old people have psychological needs like care, love and communication that can hardly be met through the society-based system. Young people should still spend more time with their parents, supporting them both economically and mentally.
Everything is relative, cultural difference being no exception. Culture, as the total pattern of human behavior and its products, oversteps geographical limits and historical conditions in many ways, and it is characterized by its strong penetrativeness and fusibility.
The advancement of the globalized economy and the rapidity and ease of modern communication, transportation, and mass media have resulted in an ever increasing exchange between cultures, unprecedented in scale, scope, and speed. Consequently, an increase in universality and a reduction in difference between cultures is an inevitable trend. It is no surprise to see phenomena characteristic of one culture existing in another. As a result, some people even fear that the world will become a dull place when all the different nationalities behave exactly , the “cultural sediment” formed through long-range accumulation is not to be easily removed, and the cultural tradition handed down from generation to generation shows great consistency and continuity. The cultures of different regions and nations still have their own distinctive peculiarities, and therefore significance still needs to be attached to the study of the individualities of different cultures against the background of their universality.
By and large, linearity and circularity can be used to indicate the major difference between Western and Chinese cultures. “Western culture” here is a general term, putting aside its interior regional diversities in order to contrast it with Chinese culture. A circle is a round enclosure. A line is a narrow continuous mark. The contrast between the linearity of Western culture and the circularity of Chinese culture embodies itself in such aspects as worldview, core value, outlook on time, and mode of thinking.
The prevalence of pressure phenomenon has concerned a multitude of individuals from four corners of the world. Many individuals, if not most, harbor the idea that pressure harm character“s mind grossly. For my part, governments are supposed to spare no effort to solve this multiplex problem. Pressure, which looks hard to get rid of, can be relieved through a variety of methods.
As to me, I choose happiness over depression when I face trying circumstance causing great tension. I am a web surfer and Internet exerts a tremendous fascination on a great number of people, with no exception to me. In all websites, I warm to Diandian best. My introduction to Diandian, which is an excellent forum, came from a friends recommendation. The night I got my first taste on Diandian was unforgettable. In Diandian, Mr. Ding, who is an enthusiastic and superexcellent teacher, will help you asking any English questions to him. Furthermore, you can freely express views and enjoy classic music in it. In short, Diandian forum exceedingly appeals to me. So it should come as no surprise that I indulged myself in Diandian as soon as I have web access on it. As yet, Diandian, under Mr. Ding guidance, has become the best English forum in its own right and the potential of Diandian is bound to be ever greater.
Some fear a circumstance with so many pressures. However, I think not because Diandian will accompany me on hard learning journey. As to myself, surfing on Diandian forum is the best way relieving pressure.
During the SARS period in this spring, the year of 20_, one of my classmates, Li ming, was struck down by the virus and was immediately sent to hospital.
The news spread quickly on campus. At first, we were terrified and wondered if we were infected too. However, through our government's publicity on mass media, we gradually conquered the fear and set out to try out best to help her. Some teachers provided darly necessities while some students recorded the English class contents for him so that Li ming could not be left behind. With our care and concern, Li ming recovered quickly.
Such an incident teaches us a good moral. Our society is full of love, warm and peaceful, in which people-from man to woman, from individual to individual-lend others a hand. Just like a famous song goes, ^v^the world will turn it to heaven only if everyone contributes a little.^v^ and I do believe that it's my great honor to live in this love-filled paradise!
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